Every time her neighbor would hang her wash to dry, the young woman would make the same comments.
The bottom line is:
The quantity, and even quality, of your "gift" of judgment, condemnation and/or forgiveness detemines what you will receive - and what you receive will be "pressed down, shaken together to make room for more, running over, and poured into your lap."
- Please beware.
The other thing is: if you cannot help someone become better - don't talk about them.
The flip side is:
The fact that you help others become better doesn't mean you should talk about it or them.