Got this in an email...and my comments are in green and as usual, pictures mine...
I like to see life as full of catalysts or challenges, stepping stones or stumbling blocks - it all depends on your perception and response. Unfortunately most people fail to see how God wants to use problems for good in their lives. They react foolishly and resent their problems rather than pausing to consider what benefit they might bring. Here are five ways God wants to use the problems in your life:
1. God uses problems to DIRECT you: Sometimes God must light a fire under you to get you moving. Problems often point us in a new direction and motivate us to change. Is God trying to get your attention? "Sometimes it takes a painful situation to make us change our ways." Proverbs 20:30
I like the thought of being a teabag with a string on it - God is always in control. Has God ever tested your faith with a problem? What do problems reveal about you? "When you have many kinds of troubles, you should be full of joy, because you know that these troubles test your faith, and this will give you patience." James 1:2-3
3. God uses problems to CORRECT you: Some lessons we learn only through pain and failure. It's likely that as a child your parents told you not to touch a hot stove. But you probably learned by being burned. Sometimes we only learn the value of something - health, money, a relationship - by losing it. "... It was the best thing that could have happened to me, for it taught me to pay attention to your laws." Psalms 119:71-72
4. God uses problems to PROTECT you: A problem can be a blessing in disguise if it prevents you from being harmed by something more serious. Last year a friend was fired for refusing to do something unethical that his boss had asked him to do. His unemployment was a problem - but it saved him from being convicted and sent to prison a year later when management's actions were eventually discovered. Like Joseph said: "You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good..." Genesis 50:20
5. God uses problems to PERFECT you: Problems, when responded to correctly, are character builders. God is far more interested in your character than your comfort. Your relationship to God and your character are the only two things you're going to take with you into eternity. "We can rejoice when we run into problems ...they help us learn to be patient. And patience develops strength of character in us and helps us trust God more each time we use it until finally our hope and faith are strong and steady." Romans. 5:3-4.
"Be thankful for each new challenge, because it will build your strength and character."**
God is at work in your life - even when you do not recognize it or understand it! Rom 8:28 - And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose. (NKJV). But it's much easier and profitable when you cooperate with Him!
Author Unknown (This has been attributed to various authors)
**Author Unknown, from Be Thankful