Yes indeed "R" makes a world of difference because it's all about "Relationship." Now I need to be careful with the next sentence and the rest of the post however, I'm sure you'd agree that it's "relationship" that converts a fiend to friend and the lack thereof that does the reverse...

Facebook friends are in a different category - actually layers of levels because it really takes more than a click to become a really true friend.
Taking a cue from the phrase "Add friend" should remind us that friends should "add" to us not "subtract" from us...we should add to them too.
The richness of a friendship/relationship is in its unreserved reciprocity.


Tightly because good (& real) friends are hard to find; lightly because we grow, change and go in different directions. Just like I "unfriend" people on Facebook when I notice a misalignment between our values, I continually assess myself and my friends to be sure we still on the straight and narrow path - adding to each other otherwise we might as well subtract ourselves from each other.

In my heart, I believe people can be (best) friends forever but don't have to be and I also believe that friendships can be passed down through generations but must not be.
Despite what has been said about friendship, guard the "R" with your friends because if the friends I have are anything to go by, they are outstanding blessings & hugs from God.
To all my friends near and far - you know yourselves - thank you for the gift of your friendship. I cherish you...
P.S.
I'm not requesting "Be my friend" applications, but may not mind becoming your true friend :)
(only if it's God's will for me).
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