Sunday, May 24, 2020

Communication tips

Let me start by wishing you a "Happy World Communications Day"
(Guess what: I just found by chance - reiterating the importance of following the Holy Spirit's leading)

A lot has been said about communication and I can't help but wonder if anyone is listening. Personally, I believe we'll be effective communicators if we take Dianna Booher's advice on communication:
"When you listen first then speak your heart with clarity and courtesy, you can lead others to change attitudes, behaviours and situations."
Over time I've written about communication - starting with the Secrets of Success* series.
Indeed it's an open secret that good & effective communication is a key to success.**

Communication is basically the exchange of information...and to be effective you must: 
  • Spend time to consider what is being said and what is not being send i.e. listen
  • Speak from your core (heart) - be careful that what you feel is real
  • Speak with clarity - ensure that you know and mean what you say
  • Speak with courtesy - your words should be laced with kindness and "salt"
Better communication is not the same as more communication. We must focus on improving the quality, not necessarily the quantity, of our communication - here are a few tips:
Communication works for those who work at it. ~ John Powell
The most important thing in communication is to hear what isn't being said. ~ Peter Drucker

The two words 'information' and 'communication' are often used interchangeably, 
but they signify quite different things. 
Information is giving out; communication is getting through. ~ Sydney J. Harris

I also enjoyed reading this Message from Pope Francis as part of the celebration of this year's World Communications Day. It has so many nuggets of how we all can and should utilize and maximize this period of lock down - as we communicate through stories. Keep communicating.


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Saturday, May 23, 2020

Step out - and up

I had the privilege of praying with a couple of my high school mates where one of us, Dr B, shared something that I felt that I needed to share further.

Stay put...not out

When this common quote: "Go where you're celebrated not tolerated" crossed my mind, the first 2 words in the title "resp...