First of all, did you know that when you pick up a turtle going one way (north, for example) and turn it around so that it is going the opposite direction, the turtle will just pull itself inside its shell, turn around, and go the way it was originally going?
The best (& easiest) way to have the best of your life is to accept who you are and be the best you you can possibly be. You are you for a reason; being someone else will be a disservice to the whole world. Learn one more thing from the turtle and be comfortable and confident about who you are - and boast only in the Lord.
** Heb 12: 1 - Therefore then, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses [who have borne testimony to the Truth], let us strip off and throw aside every encumbrance (unnecessary weight) and that sin which so readily (deftly and cleverly) clings to and entangles us, and let us run with patient endurance and steady and active persistence the appointed course of the race that is set before us, (Amplified)
** Gen 11:31 - 32 - Terah took his son Abram, his grandson Lot, who was the son of Haran, and his daughter-in-law Sarai, Abram's wife, and with them he left the city of Ur in Babylonia to go to the land of Canaan. They went as far as Haran and settled there. Terah died there at the age of 205.(GNT)